In today’s world of Instagram-perfect vacations, it’s easy for parents to feel the pressure to go big during the holidays.
But the truth is, meaningful memories aren’t about how much you spend.
They’re about the love, laughter, and connection you share with your kids.
To prove it, we asked real parents to share their favorite holiday traditions that don’t come with a hefty price tag.
Spoiler: These ideas are not only budget-friendly but also heartwarming and oh-so-special!
Decorating the House and DIY Traditions
Lavinia, a mother of one, has a tradition that’s become a family favourite.
Every year, her son eagerly helps with decorating the Christmas tree and their home.
She shares, ‘Last year, we started involving him in the process. This year, even though I was a bit tired to set up the tree early, he was so excited that we still made it happen by the last week of November.’
To add a personal touch to the holidays, Lavinia gets crafty with her son.
They create handmade decorations and gifts, such as framed craft pieces featuring her son’s art.
These gifts, paired with a photo of her son and his grandparents or godparents, become cherished keepsakes.
Another cherished activity?
Baking cookies together – although this year, Lavinia’s oven decided to take a holiday too!
Despite the hiccup, she finds ways to keep the festive spirit alive.
And it’s not just about staying home.
Lavinia’s family loves driving around to see Christmas lights at night. ‘We avoid the mall crowds with fake snow and stick to quieter spots,’ she explains.
They also have a yearly tradition of taking a family photo with Santa to create personalised holiday cards.
‘Nothing fancy,’ she says. ‘I just use Canva to design it.’
Small Adventures and Big Connections
For Vanitha, a mother of one, holidays are about turning everyday outings into magical adventures.
‘Dhanesh and I believe that a day out is an adventure by itself,’ she says.
Their activities range from exploring Selangor Pewter to visiting her son’s favourite music store.
‘He loves trying new guitars,’ she shares.
Afterward, they indulge in cake and coffee together.
Vanitha also enjoys arts and crafts with her nieces and son.
From making cards and wrapping presents to cuddling up for a movie night, she focuses on bonding moments.
‘Sometimes it’s just snuggles on the couch with a good movie,’ she says.
‘And when Dhanesh and I want a little foodie adventure, we explore local cuisines or the latest cafe trends.’
Slowing Down to Truly Connect
Alia, a mother of three, sees the holidays as a chance to reconnect with her children.
‘Our days are usually packed with work, school, and activities. The holidays give me the chance to learn more about what they love,’ she says.
Alia lets her children choose what they want to do, whether it’s baking, crafting, or simply playing games.
For her, the joy lies in slowing down and savouring their company without the usual hustle and bustle.
Cosy Movie Marathons
For Liana and her teenage daughter, the holidays are about keeping things low key and cosy.
‘It may not sound luxurious, but we spend time catching up on our favorite shows and Christmas movies,’ she says.
Their annual tradition involves transforming the living room into a festive haven, complete with snacks and a sofa bed for an epic TV binge session.
‘Sometimes we even fall asleep in front of the TV’, Liana shares. ‘It’s become our special ritual to end the year on a relaxed and happy note.’
Reflecting and Growing Together
Aishah, a mother of four, has created a meaningful year-end tradition that centers on reflection and growth.
‘Something I’ve done with all my kids is to check up on them periodically throughout the year – not just a casual “How are you?” but deeper questions like “What made you happy?” or “What upset you?”’ she shares.
But specifically when the holidays are here, they dive deeper and her family comes together to look back on their experiences.
‘My eldest is 20, followed by my 16, 13, and 10. Even when they were little, they loved this tradition. Over time, it’s become a moment they cherish.’
This reflective practice also includes conversations about personal growth.
‘We ask how we can be better parents and how they feel they could improve as friends or siblings.
Why year end? It’s a quiet period that allows us all to reflect and prepare for the new school year or term at university.’
Of course, that’s not all they do.
Aishah adds, ‘During the year end, we gather all the kids and play fun games, make dinner together – something that takes a bit more effort and time and trial new recipes. We also update their rooms if their tastes have changed.
It’s a period where we do anything and everything, as long as we’re together.’
Memorable Moments: Making It Your Own
Parents, the beauty of these stories is the reminder that holidays are what you make of them.
Whether it’s a quiet movie night, a baking session gone wrong, or a simple family outing, the magic lies in the moments you share.
Lavinia sums it up perfectly: ‘It’s not about how much you spend; it’s about spending time together.’
So, let’s take the pressure off this holiday season.
Embrace the little things, and remember that the best memories come from the heart, not the wallet.
What traditions will you start this year?
Wishing you and yours a Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays with love from Motherhood!
Disclaimer: The information provided in this article is for informational purposes only and should not be considered as medical advice from Motherhood. For any health-related concerns, it is advisable to consult with a qualified healthcare professional or medical practitioner.
For more insightful stories and fun recipes, stay tuned to Motherhood Story!