{"id":21653,"date":"2022-07-06T11:00:59","date_gmt":"2022-07-06T03:00:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/story.motherhood.com.my\/my\/?p=21653"},"modified":"2022-07-04T14:55:46","modified_gmt":"2022-07-04T06:55:46","slug":"kepentingan-bonding-bersama-anak-anak","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/story.motherhood.com.my\/my\/kepentingan-bonding-bersama-anak-anak\/","title":{"rendered":"Luangkan Masa Bersama Anak-Anak: Bapa Ceritakan Kepentingan &#8220;Bonding&#8221; Untuk Mengenali Anak Dengan Lebih Mendalam"},"content":{"rendered":"<article class=\"entry-content\"><p>Luangkan masa ataupun <em>bonding time<\/em> bersama anak-anak kita ini harus kerap dilakukan. Dengan <em>bonding<\/em>, kita dapat mengenali anak dengan lebih mendalam seperti apa aktiviti kegemaran mereka, apa mereka tidak suka dan macam-macam lagi. <em>Bonding time<\/em> bersama anak bukan hanya bermain bersama mereka tau Mommy.<\/p>\n<p>Ikuti perkongsian seorang bapa Encik Mohd Yazid di laman Facebook beliau dimana beliau sering luangkan masa untuk bersama dengan setiap anaknya dan kepentingan <em>bonding<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Jom baca dengan lebih lanjut!<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Hari Khas Untuk Bapa Dan Anak\u00a0<\/strong><\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_21693\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-21693\" style=\"width: 768px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><small>Highlighted<\/small><div class='nuren-tag' data-nuren-zone='story_ng_zone' style='max-width:600px;margin: 0 auto;'><\/div><br><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-21693 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/15095130\/yazidismailfbbonding-imresizer-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/15095130\/yazidismailfbbonding-imresizer-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/15095130\/yazidismailfbbonding-imresizer-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/15095130\/yazidismailfbbonding-imresizer-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/15095130\/yazidismailfbbonding-imresizer-370x493.jpg 370w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/15095130\/yazidismailfbbonding-imresizer-570x760.jpg 570w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/15095130\/yazidismailfbbonding-imresizer-770x1027.jpg 770w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/15095130\/yazidismailfbbonding-imresizer-1170x1560.jpg 1170w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/15095130\/yazidismailfbbonding-imresizer-435x580.jpg 435w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/15095130\/yazidismailfbbonding-imresizer.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-21693\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Kredit gambar: Facebook Mohd Yazid Ismail<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><em>Setiap tahun saya akan buat &#8216;special bonding session&#8217; dengan anak-anak secara sorang demi sorang. Jalan-jalan berdua. Atau sekadar makan malam berdua. Kadang dua kali setahun setiap orang.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Hari ni saya buat &#8216;bonding session&#8217; dengan Saeed, umur 5 tahun. Bawa jalan-jalan, naik Komuter lepas tu tukar naik MRT.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2><strong>Tetapkan Giliran Untuk Anak-Anak<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><em>Sesi &#8216;bonding&#8217; ada giliran untuk setiap anak. Semua tak sabar tunggu giliran masing-masing.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Sebelum giliran Saeed hari ni, saya buat sesi dengan Dhia, lepas tu Fina. Bawa keluar mengopi dan makan kek waktu malam.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Saya memang buat sesi macam ni dengan anak-anak sejak anak sulung (Bashir) kecil lagi. Sekarang Bashir dah 14 tahun.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2><strong>Kepentingan <em>Bonding<\/em> Bersama Anak<\/strong><\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_21697\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-21697\" style=\"width: 768px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-21697 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/15101400\/mohdyazid-imresizer-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"keluarga encik Yazid yang sering bonding bersama anak-anak\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/15101400\/mohdyazid-imresizer-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/15101400\/mohdyazid-imresizer-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/15101400\/mohdyazid-imresizer-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/15101400\/mohdyazid-imresizer-370x493.jpg 370w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/15101400\/mohdyazid-imresizer-570x760.jpg 570w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/15101400\/mohdyazid-imresizer-770x1027.jpg 770w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/15101400\/mohdyazid-imresizer-1170x1560.jpg 1170w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/15101400\/mohdyazid-imresizer-435x580.jpg 435w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/15101400\/mohdyazid-imresizer.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-21697\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><em>Kredit gambar: Facebook Mohd Yazid Ismail<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><em>Bagus sesi macam ni. Anak-anak boleh buat luahan perasaan sorang demi sorang. Borak lama-lama tanpa &#8216;gap&#8217;, macam-macam cerita keluar. Macam bercerita dengan kawan. Seronok mereka.<\/em><\/p>\n<h3><strong>Kenapa Mereka Seronok?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><em>Anak rasa dirinya<\/em><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><em>istimewa.<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>dihargai.<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em> ada orang yang sedia mendengar luahan perasaan yang lama terpendam.<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Kalau anak bawah umur 7 tahun macam Saeed ni, ia akan jadi sesi bertanya beribu-ribu soalan. Bersedialah goreng jawapan.<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><em>Sesi bonding juga saya gunakan untuk bagi motivasi dan nasihat yang spesifik untuk setiap anak. Masing-masing ada perangai dan masalah yang berbeza, maka nasihat pun berbeza tak sama dengan adik beradik yang lain.<\/em><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><em>Saya pun rasa bahagia dapat keluar berdua macam ni. Rasa macam me time. Tenang je.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Untuk baca dengan lebih lanjut boleh klik pada link di <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/mohdyazid.ismail.3\/posts\/pfbid028ciafyWRb5BAwaWKu4uYf4AbPkvCKW6RcSHTDeFwBEyYkp4Nfdi5gyUvqtxQUe9Pl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">sini<\/a>.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_21696\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-21696\" style=\"width: 770px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-21696 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/15101102\/mohdyazidismail2-imresizer-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"bonding bersama anak-anak\" width=\"770\" height=\"578\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/15101102\/mohdyazidismail2-imresizer-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/15101102\/mohdyazidismail2-imresizer-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/15101102\/mohdyazidismail2-imresizer-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/15101102\/mohdyazidismail2-imresizer-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/15101102\/mohdyazidismail2-imresizer-500x375.jpg 500w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/15101102\/mohdyazidismail2-imresizer-370x278.jpg 370w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/15101102\/mohdyazidismail2-imresizer-570x428.jpg 570w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/15101102\/mohdyazidismail2-imresizer-770x578.jpg 770w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/15101102\/mohdyazidismail2-imresizer-1170x878.jpg 1170w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/15101102\/mohdyazidismail2-imresizer-773x580.jpg 773w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/06\/15101102\/mohdyazidismail2-imresizer.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 770px) 100vw, 770px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-21696\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><em>Kredit gambar: Facebook Mohd Yazid Ismail <\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Comel betul <em>spend time<\/em> bersama anak dan bapa. Jika kita tidak luangkan masa bersama, kita tidak akan kenal perwatakan seseorang itu. Lama-kelamaan anak kita juga membesar dan membentuk macam-macam perwatakan. Sebab itulah, Mommy dan Daddy harus melakukan <em>bonding<\/em> bersama anak-anak untuk kenal mereka dengan lebih mendalam dan kenali siapa mereka sebenarnya. Mesti banyak cerita mereka mahu luahkan!<\/p>\n<p>Semoga dengan perkongsian yang mengamat hati oleh Encik Yazid ini, Mommy dapat laksanakan aktiviti <em>bonding<\/em> ataupun dapat idea<em> bonding<\/em> bersama anak-anak ini. Pastikan mereka sentiasa was-was dengan persekitaran mereka apabila membawa mereka jalan-jalan ke tempat awam. Jangan takut pada soalan-soalan mereka, Mommy patut bangga dengan mereka kerana mereka ada perasaan ingin tahu!<\/p>\n<p>Selamat mencuba dan sentiasa berhati-hati ya Mommy~<\/p>\n<p><em>Kredit: Facebook Mohd Yazid Bin Ismail<\/em><\/p>\n<\/article>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Luangkan masa ataupun bonding time bersama anak-anak kita ini harus kerap dilakukan. 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