{"id":23230,"date":"2022-07-27T10:00:09","date_gmt":"2022-07-27T02:00:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/story.motherhood.com.my\/my\/?p=23230"},"modified":"2022-07-25T17:30:48","modified_gmt":"2022-07-25T09:30:48","slug":"anak-boleh-bercakap-tapi-tiada-komunikasi-ibu-kongsi-tips-komunikasi-dengan-anak","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/story.motherhood.com.my\/my\/anak-boleh-bercakap-tapi-tiada-komunikasi-ibu-kongsi-tips-komunikasi-dengan-anak\/","title":{"rendered":"Anak Boleh Bercakap Tapi Tiada Komunikasi? Ibu Kongsi Tips Komunikasi Dengan Anak"},"content":{"rendered":"<article class=\"entry-content\"><p>Tidak dinafikan, memang teruja apabila si manja sudah pandai bunyi-bunyi dan bercakap. Tetapi adakah percakapan mereka bermaksud mereka sebenarnya sedang berkomunikasi dengan kita? Ataupun bunyi kosong semata-mata?<\/p>\n<p>Disebabkan mereka kerap tengok TV dan video-video di YouTube, mereka sering mengulangi perkataan yang sama dan apabila kita bercakap dengan si manja pun, jawapannya sama.<\/p>\n<p>Ikuti perkongsian tips daripada Puan Wan Nur Syakira, seorang Penulis dan ibu yang sering kongsikan ilmu keibubapaan, tentang kenapa jika perkara ini dibiar berlarutan, anak Mommy sebenarnya tiada kemahiran komunikasi.<\/p>\n<p>Jom baca dengan lebih lanjut.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Kenapa Bahaya Jika Anak Tak Reti Berkomunikasi\u00a0<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><small>Highlighted<\/small><div class='nuren-tag' data-nuren-zone='story_ng_zone' style='max-width:600px;margin: 0 auto;'><\/div><br><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-large wp-image-23244 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21145649\/shutterstock_1422996182-imresizer-1024x682.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"770\" height=\"513\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21145649\/shutterstock_1422996182-imresizer-1024x682.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21145649\/shutterstock_1422996182-imresizer-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21145649\/shutterstock_1422996182-imresizer-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21145649\/shutterstock_1422996182-imresizer-370x246.jpg 370w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21145649\/shutterstock_1422996182-imresizer-270x180.jpg 270w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21145649\/shutterstock_1422996182-imresizer-570x380.jpg 570w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21145649\/shutterstock_1422996182-imresizer-770x513.jpg 770w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21145649\/shutterstock_1422996182-imresizer-1170x779.jpg 1170w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21145649\/shutterstock_1422996182-imresizer-871x580.jpg 871w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21145649\/shutterstock_1422996182-imresizer.jpg 1500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 770px) 100vw, 770px\" \/><\/p>\n<div class=\"kvgmc6g5 cxmmr5t8 oygrvhab hcukyx3x c1et5uql ii04i59q\">\n<div dir=\"auto\"><em>Bahaya sebenarnya kalau anak boleh cakap, tapi tak boleh komunikasi! Apa maksudnya ?<\/em><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"cxmmr5t8 oygrvhab hcukyx3x c1et5uql o9v6fnle ii04i59q\">\n<ul>\n<li><em>Boleh cakap dialog kartun yang dia tengok, tapi bila kita ulang dialog yang sama, anak tak faham dan jawab.<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Boleh sebut dengan fasih atau pelat ABC, 123, car, aeroplane, tapi tak pernah panggil &#8220;ibu, ayah&#8221;.<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Boleh sebut dan cakap benda atau kartun yang suka minat seperti &#8220;cocomelon&#8221;, &#8220;upin ipin&#8221;, &#8220;ejen ali&#8221; tapi dia tak pernah jawab dan respon bila ditanya apa-apa soalan.<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Boleh nyanyi lagu yang dia hafal dan suka, tapi bila dia nak minta sesuatu, masih tarik-tarik tangan ibu ayah.<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Boleh sebut gambar haiwan giraffe, cat, chicken, snake, tapi tak tahu nak cakap &#8220;nak makan &#8221; atau &#8220;nak susu&#8221; sehinggakan dia mampu menangis saja.<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><strong>Perhatian Buat Mommy!<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-large wp-image-23243 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21145340\/shutterstock_785053231-imresizer-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"770\" height=\"514\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21145340\/shutterstock_785053231-imresizer-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21145340\/shutterstock_785053231-imresizer-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21145340\/shutterstock_785053231-imresizer-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21145340\/shutterstock_785053231-imresizer-370x247.jpg 370w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21145340\/shutterstock_785053231-imresizer-270x180.jpg 270w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21145340\/shutterstock_785053231-imresizer-570x380.jpg 570w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21145340\/shutterstock_785053231-imresizer-770x513.jpg 770w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21145340\/shutterstock_785053231-imresizer-1170x780.jpg 1170w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21145340\/shutterstock_785053231-imresizer-870x580.jpg 870w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21145340\/shutterstock_785053231-imresizer.jpg 1500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 770px) 100vw, 770px\" \/><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"cxmmr5t8 oygrvhab hcukyx3x c1et5uql o9v6fnle ii04i59q\">\n<div dir=\"auto\"><em>Ini red alert untuk komunikasi anak! Nampak macam okay, tapi sebenarnya tak. Anak perlu tahu bercakap dua hala untuk membesar dengan normal dan baik. <\/em><em>Sepatutnya:\u00a0<\/em><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"cxmmr5t8 oygrvhab hcukyx3x c1et5uql o9v6fnle ii04i59q\">\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"cxmmr5t8 oygrvhab hcukyx3x c1et5uql o9v6fnle ii04i59q\">\n<div dir=\"auto\"><strong>\u2192Umur 2-3 tahun<\/strong><\/div>\n<ul>\n<li><em>Dah boleh berborak tentang perkara yang tiada di bilik.<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Tahu gunakan kata hubung seperti atas, dalam, bawah.<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Dah boleh tanya sesuatu guna 2 atau 3 patah perkataan.<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"cxmmr5t8 oygrvhab hcukyx3x c1et5uql o9v6fnle ii04i59q\">\n<div dir=\"auto\"><strong>\u2192Umur 3-4 tahun<\/strong><\/div>\n<ul>\n<li><em>Boleh jawab soalan mudah seperti siapa, apa, di mana.<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Boleh cerita dalam 4 patah perkataan, walaupun ada kesalahan dalam bina ayat.<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Boleh guna kata ganti nama seperti saya, awak, kami.<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"cxmmr5t8 oygrvhab hcukyx3x c1et5uql o9v6fnle ii04i59q\">\n<div dir=\"auto\"><strong>\u2192Umur 4-5 tahun<\/strong><\/div>\n<ul>\n<li><em>Boleh respon kepada &#8220;Apa kamu tanya tadi&#8221;.<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Boleh faham perkataan berkaitan masa &#8221; hari ini&#8221;, semalam dan &#8220;esok&#8221;.<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Boleh ikut arahan panjang seperti pakai baju, ambil buku.<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Boleh cerita sesuatu dengan ringkas.<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"cxmmr5t8 oygrvhab hcukyx3x c1et5uql o9v6fnle ii04i59q\">\n<div dir=\"auto\"><em>Ini adalah perkembangan normal milestone sosial dan komunikasi kanak-kanak. Kalau perkembangan tidak normal, ia boleh ganggu:<\/em><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"cxmmr5t8 oygrvhab hcukyx3x c1et5uql o9v6fnle ii04i59q\">\n<ul>\n<li><em>Kemahiran anak nak urus diri(makan, toilet training, dan banyak lagi).<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Kemahiran nak urus emosi (tak boleh ekspresikan apa yang mereka rasa dalam perkataan).<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Kemahiran kognitif\/ berfikir anak (bila anak boleh bercakap, dia akan banyak bertanya , apa yang ibu ayah cakap, mereka ada kemampuan untuk faham).<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Kemahiran sosial dan komunikasi (susah nak berinteraksi dengan orang lain atau keluarga sendiri).<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-large wp-image-23241 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21144104\/shutterstock_2136373641-imresizer-1-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"770\" height=\"514\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21144104\/shutterstock_2136373641-imresizer-1-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21144104\/shutterstock_2136373641-imresizer-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21144104\/shutterstock_2136373641-imresizer-1-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21144104\/shutterstock_2136373641-imresizer-1-370x247.jpg 370w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21144104\/shutterstock_2136373641-imresizer-1-270x180.jpg 270w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21144104\/shutterstock_2136373641-imresizer-1-570x380.jpg 570w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21144104\/shutterstock_2136373641-imresizer-1-770x513.jpg 770w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21144104\/shutterstock_2136373641-imresizer-1-1170x780.jpg 1170w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21144104\/shutterstock_2136373641-imresizer-1-870x580.jpg 870w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21144104\/shutterstock_2136373641-imresizer-1.jpg 1500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 770px) 100vw, 770px\" \/><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"cxmmr5t8 oygrvhab hcukyx3x c1et5uql o9v6fnle ii04i59q\">\n<div dir=\"auto\"><em>Apa yang perlu dibuat? Antaranya,<\/em><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"cxmmr5t8 oygrvhab hcukyx3x c1et5uql o9v6fnle ii04i59q\">\n<ol>\n<li><em>Lakukan aktiviti ransangan bercakap di rumah.<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Banyakkan bermain sambil bercakap dengan anak.<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Fokus pada sebut apa yang anak pegang dan lakukan.<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Terus dapatkan assessment dari terapis perkembangan kanak-kanak . Jangan bertangguh.<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"cxmmr5t8 oygrvhab hcukyx3x c1et5uql o9v6fnle ii04i59q\">\n<div dir=\"auto\"><em>Penting sangat kita peka tentang bercakap ni. Kemahiran sosial dan bercakap banyak mempengaruhi kemahiran anak menguruskan kehidupan sehariannya.<\/em><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Jika Mommy nak baca dengan lebih lanjut tentang ini, boleh klik pada link <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/wan.syakira\/posts\/pfbid02vg8FUFWD4AQYRfyQmFh1eF3fgSNhWmzdu4ATNcsjewBukfX5764452xdrr9DXgwFl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">ini<\/a>.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-large wp-image-23249 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21160509\/shutterstock_1392845645-imresizer-1024x681.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"770\" height=\"512\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21160509\/shutterstock_1392845645-imresizer-1024x681.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21160509\/shutterstock_1392845645-imresizer-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21160509\/shutterstock_1392845645-imresizer-768x510.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21160509\/shutterstock_1392845645-imresizer-370x246.jpg 370w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21160509\/shutterstock_1392845645-imresizer-270x180.jpg 270w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21160509\/shutterstock_1392845645-imresizer-570x379.jpg 570w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21160509\/shutterstock_1392845645-imresizer-770x512.jpg 770w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21160509\/shutterstock_1392845645-imresizer-1170x778.jpg 1170w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21160509\/shutterstock_1392845645-imresizer-873x580.jpg 873w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/07\/21160509\/shutterstock_1392845645-imresizer.jpg 1500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 770px) 100vw, 770px\" \/><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Banyak tips daripada Puan Syakira yang Mommy boleh ambil ikhtibar dan masukkan dalam aktiviti seharian. Mujur ada petua-petua ini untuk Mommy fahamkan lagi situasi percakapan anak Mommy.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Yang penting Mommy harus ajarkan mereka satu per satu, dan jangan tangguh ok! Mereka perlu konsisten agar kemahiran komunikasi mereka untuk berkembang.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><em>Kredit: Facebook Wan Nur Syakira\u00a0<\/em><\/div>\n<\/article>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tidak dinafikan, memang teruja apabila si manja sudah pandai bunyi-bunyi dan bercakap. Tetapi adakah percakapan mereka bermaksud mereka sebenarnya sedang berkomunikasi dengan kita? 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