{"id":27785,"date":"2023-01-06T15:25:01","date_gmt":"2023-01-06T07:25:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/story.motherhood.com.my\/my\/?p=27785"},"modified":"2023-02-23T09:32:59","modified_gmt":"2023-02-23T01:32:59","slug":"cara-untuk-tidak-cepat-marah","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/story.motherhood.com.my\/my\/cara-untuk-tidak-cepat-marah\/","title":{"rendered":"Jangan Cepat Sergah Anak, Mommy! Cara Untuk Tidak Cepat Marah, Melenting Apabila Anak Buat Salah"},"content":{"rendered":"<article class=\"entry-content\"><p>Mommy, selalu kita cepat je naik suara dengan anak kita sebab geram dengan perangai mereka yang tak duduk diam tu. Betul tak? Selalu kacau ketenteraman jiwa mental dan fizikal kita kan?<\/p>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Tetapi kalau kita ringan sangat mulut untuk marah mereka, mesti ada padah nya. Secara amnya, ia mengajar anak-anak kita untuk takut dengan Mommy daripada memahami akibat daripada tindakan mereka.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Anak-anak masih kecil dan bergantung pada ibu bapa mereka untuk belajar. Anak Mommy akan rasa ianya normal apabila marah dan menjerit. Oleh itu, perangai mereka juga akan menjadi seperti itu sebab ia dianggap biasa.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Ikuti perkongsian daripada Encik Fhais tentang tips macam mana kita sebagai ibu bapa boleh cara alternatif lain daripada marah dan tengking mereka.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Jom kita baca~<\/div>\n<div class=\"xdj266r x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs x126k92a\">\n<h2><strong>Jangan Cepat Marah Salah Anak!<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><small>Highlighted<\/small><div class='nuren-tag' data-nuren-zone='story_ng_zone' style='max-width:600px;margin: 0 auto;'><\/div><br><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-27967 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/11\/22154910\/shutterstock_1482620645-imresizer-1024x575.jpg\" alt=\"anak sedih mak marah \" width=\"770\" height=\"432\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/11\/22154910\/shutterstock_1482620645-imresizer-1024x575.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/11\/22154910\/shutterstock_1482620645-imresizer-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/11\/22154910\/shutterstock_1482620645-imresizer-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/11\/22154910\/shutterstock_1482620645-imresizer-480x270.jpg 480w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/11\/22154910\/shutterstock_1482620645-imresizer-370x208.jpg 370w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/11\/22154910\/shutterstock_1482620645-imresizer-570x320.jpg 570w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/11\/22154910\/shutterstock_1482620645-imresizer-770x433.jpg 770w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/11\/22154910\/shutterstock_1482620645-imresizer-1170x658.jpg 1170w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/11\/22154910\/shutterstock_1482620645-imresizer-1032x580.jpg 1032w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/11\/22154910\/shutterstock_1482620645-imresizer.jpg 1500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 770px) 100vw, 770px\" \/><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\">\n<div dir=\"auto\"><em>Bila kita terlalu highlight sangat kesilapan kecil dia tu ini yang bakal terjadi.<\/em><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\">\n<ul>\n<li><em>dia asyik cari salah orang<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>dia hanya fokus pada masalah<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>dia susah nampak solusi<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>dia sentiasa fikir negatif<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>dia senang stress &amp; serabut<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><em style=\"color: var(--site-color); font-family: var(--font_text-font-family);\">Risau dia membesar jadi seorang yang <strong>Mistake Oriented Person<\/strong>. Sebab itu la bila nampak anak ada buat salah kita jangan terus hukum atau marah. <\/em><em style=\"color: var(--site-color); font-family: var(--font_text-font-family);\">Sebaliknya kita ajar dia solusi lebih baik.<\/em><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\">\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\">\n<div dir=\"auto\"><em><strong>1. Kita bantu dia cari solusi<\/strong><\/em><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\">\n<div dir=\"auto\"><em>\u201cTak apa kakak, mari ibu tolong&#8230;.\u201d<\/em><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\">\n<div dir=\"auto\"><em><strong>2. Bagitahu dia, tak ada manusia yang sempurna<\/strong><\/em><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\">\n<div dir=\"auto\"><em>\u201cSemua orang buat silap, adik jangan risau ya\u201d<\/em><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\">\n<div dir=\"auto\"><em><strong>3. Ajar minta maaf dan muhasabah diri<\/strong><\/em><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\">\n<div dir=\"auto\"><em>\u201cAbang minta maaf, lepas tu janji tak ulang lagi\u201d<\/em><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>Rasanya tak ada yang nak anak kita jadi toksikkan. Fitrah kanak-kanak, mereka lebih senang belajar bila ada \u2018Trust\u2019 berbanding \u2018Fear. Fear hanya akan buat hati mereka makin berkerak, dan makin membengkak. Jadi la dia kanak-kanak yang sangat toksik. Allahu.<\/p>\n<p>Tunjukkan dia solusi, nescaya sampai besar ia akan jadi belief system yang baik dalam diri.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-27968 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/11\/22155126\/shutterstock_2036962904-1-imresizer-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"mak pujuk anak selepas marah \" width=\"770\" height=\"514\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/11\/22155126\/shutterstock_2036962904-1-imresizer-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/11\/22155126\/shutterstock_2036962904-1-imresizer-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/11\/22155126\/shutterstock_2036962904-1-imresizer-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/11\/22155126\/shutterstock_2036962904-1-imresizer-370x247.jpg 370w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/11\/22155126\/shutterstock_2036962904-1-imresizer-270x180.jpg 270w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/11\/22155126\/shutterstock_2036962904-1-imresizer-570x380.jpg 570w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/11\/22155126\/shutterstock_2036962904-1-imresizer-770x513.jpg 770w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/11\/22155126\/shutterstock_2036962904-1-imresizer-1170x780.jpg 1170w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/11\/22155126\/shutterstock_2036962904-1-imresizer-870x580.jpg 870w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2022\/11\/22155126\/shutterstock_2036962904-1-imresizer.jpg 1500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 770px) 100vw, 770px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Mudah je tips yang diberi oleh Encik Fhais. Senang cakap, jika teruskan untuk marah dan teking anak, ia menjadikan kanak-kanak takut, menentang, ataupun agresif.<\/p>\n<p>Semestinya ia adalah fakta yang ibu bapa akan rasa<em> annoyed<\/em> dengan tingkah laku anak mereka. Tapi diingat juga pada ibu bapa bahawa, ia tidak mengapa untuk marah, tetapi ia adalah salah untuk menyakiti anak, dalam kemarahan.<\/p>\n<p>Semoga bermanfaat untuk Mommy dan Daddy!<\/p>\n<p><em>Kredit: Mohd Fhais Salim<\/em><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>Dapatkan lebih banyak info dan tips tentang keibubapaan klik di <a href=\"https:\/\/story.motherhood.com.my\/my\/category\/keibubapaan\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>SINI<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/article>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mommy, selalu kita cepat je naik suara dengan anak kita sebab geram dengan perangai mereka yang tak duduk diam tu. Betul tak? 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