{"id":3152,"date":"2018-07-16T08:30:15","date_gmt":"2018-07-16T00:30:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/story.motherhood.com.my\/my\/?p=3152"},"modified":"2019-01-29T12:32:49","modified_gmt":"2019-01-29T04:32:49","slug":"budak-tiada-adab-ada-caranya-untuk-mengajar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/story.motherhood.com.my\/my\/budak-tiada-adab-ada-caranya-untuk-mengajar\/","title":{"rendered":"Budak Sekarang Ramai yang Tiada Adab? &#8211; Ada Caranya Untuk Mengajar Mereka"},"content":{"rendered":"<article class=\"entry-content\"><p>Zaman sekarang ni ramai budak-budak yang tak reti nak hormat orang tua dan tiada <a href=\"https:\/\/story.motherhood.com.my\/my\/2017\/05\/20\/cara-disiplin-yang-aneh-boleh-diikuti\/?utm_source=storymotherhood&amp;utm_medium=content&amp;utm_campaign=homepage\">adab<\/a> kan? Kalau dulu memang susah nak jumpa budak yang macam ni. Semua sopan je.<\/p>\n<p>Sekarang ni ada sesetengah budak yang pergi rumah orang memang langsung takde adab. Berlari-lari dalam rumah, buat rumah orang bersepah, tak reti nak cakap elok-elok dengan <a href=\"https:\/\/story.motherhood.com.my\/my\/2018\/06\/25\/jangan-seksa-bayi-anda-sebab-sayang\/?utm_source=storymotherhood&amp;utm_medium=content&amp;utm_campaign=homepage\">orang tua<\/a>, ada tu siap tengking orang yang tegur kesalahan dia.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_3179\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3179\" style=\"width: 800px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><small>Highlighted<\/small><div class='nuren-tag' data-nuren-zone='story_ng_zone' style='max-width:600px;margin: 0 auto;'><\/div><br><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-full wp-image-3179\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2018\/07\/11164020\/1100_unspoiling_spoiled_kids.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"800\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2018\/07\/11164020\/1100_unspoiling_spoiled_kids.jpg 800w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2018\/07\/11164020\/1100_unspoiling_spoiled_kids-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2018\/07\/11164020\/1100_unspoiling_spoiled_kids-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2018\/07\/11164020\/1100_unspoiling_spoiled_kids-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2018\/07\/11164020\/1100_unspoiling_spoiled_kids-370x370.jpg 370w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2018\/07\/11164020\/1100_unspoiling_spoiled_kids-570x570.jpg 570w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2018\/07\/11164020\/1100_unspoiling_spoiled_kids-770x770.jpg 770w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2018\/07\/11164020\/1100_unspoiling_spoiled_kids-580x580.jpg 580w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-3179\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">credit: Parenting<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Nak-nak masa raya hari tu, ada je ramai komen yang ada budak-budak yang datang rumah beraya ni agak takde adab.<\/p>\n<p>Ini adalah contoh komen-komen panas di Twitter tentang budak-budak zaman sekarang.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"550\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"in\" dir=\"ltr\">Pecahkan tv lah, bunuh ikan tanpa sengaja lah. Memang kita sendiri yang kena ambik langkah berjaga-jaga sebab mak ayah sekarang ramai yang malas nak jenguk anak sendiri. <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/Jp8oZErany\">pic.twitter.com\/Jp8oZErany<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&mdash; Ayeem Jemain (@ayeemjemain) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/ayeemjemain\/status\/1013401135833477120?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">July 1, 2018<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"550\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"in\" dir=\"ltr\">Bukan &quot;budak-budak sekarang semakin kurang ajar&quot;<\/p>\n<p>Tetapi &quot;ibu bapa sekarang yang kurang mengajar&quot;.<\/p>\n<p>&mdash; NFK \ud83c\uddf2\ud83c\uddfe (@Nrfhzkmz) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Nrfhzkmz\/status\/1016141214532243458?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">July 9, 2018<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>Kenapa jadi macam ni? Ada yang salahkan ibubapa, ada netizens panggil budak-budak ni sebagai &#8220;monyet&#8221;, dan ramai yang agak melenting sebab tak elok nak panggil anak orang &#8220;monyet&#8217;. Mungkin tuan rumah yang kena pecahkan tv plasma tu sangat bengang, sebab tu terkeluar kata-kata macam tu.<\/p>\n<h3>Tapi, boleh ke kita ajar budak-budak ni jadi beradab balik? Ada. Baca ni.<\/h3>\n<h1>1. Ibubapa kena jadi &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/story.motherhood.com.my\/my\/2017\/06\/02\/mengapa-sesetengah-ibu-memukul-anak-mereka\/?utm_source=storymotherhood&amp;utm_medium=content&amp;utm_campaign=homepage\">garang<\/a>&#8220;.<\/h1>\n<p>Ada sesetengah ibubapa selalu cakap &#8220;ala budak-budak memang perangai macam tu,&#8221; tapi ada tak perasan yang anak orang lain takde perangai macam tu pun? Ada tanya diri sendiri kenapa? Ke rasa macam kitalah ibubapa paling bagus?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-large aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/media.giphy.com\/media\/6Q2KA5ly49368\/giphy.gif\" width=\"460\" height=\"325\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sebenarnya kadang-kadang jadi garang itu bagus. Sebagai ibubapa kena la tunjukkan mereka yang kita ni berkuasa. Kalau &#8220;NO&#8221;maknanya &#8220;NO&#8221;. Kenalah melentur buluh dari rebungnya. Nak jadi macam &#8220;Anakku Sazali&#8221; ke?<\/p>\n<h1>2. Terima Pendapat Orang.<\/h1>\n<figure style=\"width: 500px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.foreigngirlfriend.com\/dating-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/foreigngirlfriend-com\/sites\/4\/listen-to-me.gif\" alt=\"adab-ajar-anak\" width=\"500\" height=\"275\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">credit: ForeignGirlfriend<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Sebagai ibubapa, kenalah bersifat terbuka. Kalau orang tegur cara kita mengajar anak, janganlah nak melenting je. Mungkin ada betulnya apa orang tu cakap. Janganlah cakap &#8220;Alah, awak tu takde anak lagi mana tau apa-apa,&#8221; <em>well hello<\/em> makcik, ada je ibubapa lain yang berjaya jaga anak supaya jadi sopan. Jadi, apa alasan makcik untuk taknak terima pendapat orang lain?<\/p>\n<h1>3. Tunjukkan Teladan yang Baik.<\/h1>\n<figure id=\"attachment_3177\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3177\" style=\"width: 800px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-3177 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2018\/07\/11163204\/42-52-of-the-Worst-Parenting-Tips-Parents-Get_rely-on-rules_503188776_Choreograph.jpg\" alt=\"adab-ajar-anak\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2018\/07\/11163204\/42-52-of-the-Worst-Parenting-Tips-Parents-Get_rely-on-rules_503188776_Choreograph.jpg 800w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2018\/07\/11163204\/42-52-of-the-Worst-Parenting-Tips-Parents-Get_rely-on-rules_503188776_Choreograph-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2018\/07\/11163204\/42-52-of-the-Worst-Parenting-Tips-Parents-Get_rely-on-rules_503188776_Choreograph-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2018\/07\/11163204\/42-52-of-the-Worst-Parenting-Tips-Parents-Get_rely-on-rules_503188776_Choreograph-370x247.jpg 370w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2018\/07\/11163204\/42-52-of-the-Worst-Parenting-Tips-Parents-Get_rely-on-rules_503188776_Choreograph-270x180.jpg 270w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2018\/07\/11163204\/42-52-of-the-Worst-Parenting-Tips-Parents-Get_rely-on-rules_503188776_Choreograph-570x380.jpg 570w, https:\/\/cdn.motherhood.com.my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2018\/07\/11163204\/42-52-of-the-Worst-Parenting-Tips-Parents-Get_rely-on-rules_503188776_Choreograph-770x513.jpg 770w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-3177\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">credit: Reader&#8217;s Digest<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Ini sangat penting. Tau tak anak-anak ni perhati je apa yang kita buat? Kalau ibubapa buat sesuatu yang tak baik, anak-anak ni akan ikut. Contohnya, ada je ibubapa mencarut depan anak-anak, maki hamun orang lain depan anak-anak, secara tak langsung anak-anak ni belajar jadi macam yang diajar lah. Mereka pun akan fikir &#8220;Ooo, ni la cara terbaik nak berinteraksi dengan orang lain,&#8221; ataupun &#8220;Oo, mak ayah boleh je marah orang lain, saya pun boleh lah&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Nampak? Besar kesan dia kalau kita tersalah tunjuk contoh tauladan.<\/p>\n<h1>4. Ajar anak untuk cakap &#8220;Terima Kasih&#8221;, &#8220;Maaf&#8221;, &#8220;Tolong&#8221; dan segala &#8220;basics of politeness&#8221;.<\/h1>\n<p>Ada sesetengah budak main ambil je barang orang lain. Mana adab? Mesti semua orang akan cakap &#8220;mak bapak tak ajar&#8221;, nak ke orang cakap macam tu?<\/p>\n<figure style=\"width: 500px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/i.amz.mshcdn.com\/RU2ct2TSqVvacxH6Ceo-3cGnB9o=\/fit-in\/850x850\/https%3A%2F%2Fmashable.com%2Fwp-content%2Fgallery%2Fpolite-gifs%2Fbeatle.gif\" alt=\"adab-ajar\" width=\"500\" height=\"234\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">credit: Mashable<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Benda remeh macam ni sebenarnya memainkan peranan yang besar dalam proses tumbesaran anak-anak. Ingat.<\/p>\n<p>Kalau anak-anak buat salah, sebenarnya bukanlah salah anak-anak seratus peratus, salah ibubapa juga. Jadi, lepas ni cubalah ikut tips ni mana tau berkesan. Nak jaga anak-anak ada caranya. 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