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Daddy’s Talk: How I Ease My Kids Back into Their School Routine

Back to School Guide

Ah, there it goes—the final echoes of the holidays faded into the background.

As we bid farewell to those lazy, hazy days, the return to the structure and schedules of the school term looms large.

If you, like me, are on the cusp of navigating your youngsters back into the scholarly swing of things, why not journey with me through a few steps I’ve found incredibly useful in smoothing over this transition?

So, grab a cuppa (tea, coffee or your favourite drink), and let’s demystify this process together.

The Gentle Art of Reintroducing Routine

Preparing in advance does wonders for easing your youngsters’ transition from holiday freedom back into the rigidity of the school term.

Start by gradually moving bedtimes and waking hours back to what is typical during the school week.

Important tip: Ensure your child sleeps sufficiently for a busy schooling week.

Reinforce these times with consistent and stable routines that emulate the structure of a school day.

If possible, include educational activities or reading time to get their minds back into ‘learning mode’.

And don’t forget to establish regular meal times, mirroring the school’s schedule, to accustom their appetites and digestion to the term-time rhythm.

The Annual Pilgrimage for Supplies

Next on our list of prep duties is the gathering of school supplies.

This trek can be quite a bonding experience if approached with the right spirit.

Before heading out, take stock—an actual inventory—of what items from last year are still viable.

This saves a quid or two and teaches a valuable lesson on sustainability.

While shopping, involve the children in choosing their gear, perhaps a favourite pencil case or a snazzy notebook, which can make homework less gloomy.

A Wardrobe Overhaul

Then, there’s the inevitable growth spurt-induced wardrobe overhaul.

Sift through the previous term’s attire, donating what no longer fits and making a list of necessities.

When buying new uniforms or clothes, consider the full school year.

This is practical and gets the kids involved in the planning process, offering them a smidgeon of control and independence.

If you are in doubt, get in touch with the school administrators for more information.

At the same time, remember to get at least several sets of uniforms due to the uncontrolled weather conditions.

The Homework Haven

Creating a dedicated space free of distractions for your child to study is akin to building a mini sanctuary of learning.

This space should invite concentration, with a comfortable chair, adequate lighting, and essential supplies within arm’s reach.

Consider how space can be shared or individualised if you have more than one child.

It’s about creating an environment that says, ‘This is where we focus.’

Nurturing the Mind and Body

The importance of a nutritious lunch cannot be overstated—it fuels the young mind for the day’s challenges.

When planning lunches, balance is vital.

Try to cover the gamut of food groups, ensuring your child receives the energy they need.

Involving them in this process can also be quite enlightening; you might learn a thing or two about their budding tastes and culinary preferences!

The Final Countdown

As we wind down, a few rehearsals of the early-morning routine can thwart first-day chaos.

Act out the waking up, dressing, breakfast eating, and the journey to school.

A smooth morning often sets the tone for the day. And, as ever, foster the reawakening of the academic mind by encouraging reading, perhaps even diving into books related to their upcoming curriculum.

A Two-Way Street

Communication is a cornerstone of this entire process.

Create a ‘communication hub’, a place where school newsletters, assignment sheets, and permission slips can be easily accessed.

As a father, take the initiative to schedule regular conversations about school, not just about academics but also their feelings and social matters. Ensure they know who to call and what to do should a dilemma arise at school.

And Finally, Celebration

Finally, we bid farewell to the school holiday period and welcomed the new academic year with some fanfare.

A simple celebration can act as a positive psychological bookmark for your child, signalling the excitement of new beginnings and fresh adventures among the corridors and playgrounds of their educational journey—with a new year of learning and growing.


Disclaimer: The information provided in this article is for informational purposes only and should not be considered as medical advice from Motherhood. For any health-related concerns, it is advisable to consult with a qualified healthcare professional or medical practitioner.


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